Dear Marie: I know this question might sound strange but I'm at my wits' and and I don’t know what to do. So I'm writing to you. Maybe you'll have a suggestion about how to handle it. About a year ago my ex‐husband and I decided to get a divorce. We both wanted it....
Life Assessment for Widows and Divorcees What is it that you want for the rest of your life? How do you really want to live? What people are beneficial for you and which ones no longer serve or support who you want to become? Are you living the life you envisioned for...
GETTING WHAT YOU WANT IN 2011 – A PLAN FOR CHANGING YOUR BEHAVIOR "All you need to know is the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.” Pema Chodrin ‘The Best Buddhist Writings 2008’ Are you happy? We all have different ideas about what...
Dear Marie: I'm newly divorced and I don’t know the first thing about being on my own. The divorce was final last month. I was married to the same woman for 25 years when she asked for a divorce. I loved her then and still do. I have no idea what happened. I thought...
Everybody wants joy, but what does it mean to live your life in joy. This is a question that most people don’t contemplate. Is living your life in joy a feeling or is it something else – something more tangible? We say we want it, but we don’t know what it looks like...
In the last article – we learned what "Joy” looks like and how it feels once we have attained it. In this article we will begin to break down the barriers to obtaining joy. We will accomplish this by talking about the processes involved to achieve the goal of joy....
In the previous article we talked about one of the primary blocks to achieving the goal of joy – obscurations. Obscurations are blocks or something that hinders you from reaching your goal.I mentioned that having the intention to have joy in your life automatically...
In this article - let's talk abut that dreaded word for some "forgiveness". At one point or another in our lives, we have all been told to we must forgive. We have either heard it from a family member or the minister in church saying we must forgive. I am sure you...
I am sure everyone has used the phrase "if Only" to refer to various life events that didn't turn out well or choices made that weren't very good choices - and after the fact realized an error was made because of missing information. Well, that is the way I lived my...