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Confused about how to respond?

Confused about how to respond?

Dear Marie: I'm feeling confused about how to respond to questions my friends and family ask. My husband died three months ago and I'm still having a hard time with it. I get a lot of questions about how I'm feeling and they make me uncomfortable. I know this is what...

Crazy Without Her

Crazy Without Her

Dear Marie: I'm 62 and a widower. My wife died last year. We were married 30 years. We never had kids. My wife got cancer and died six weeks after the diagnosis. She was a good wife and we had lots of fun together. I miss her terribly. Everyone I talked with in the...

Anxiety in Suburbia

Anxiety in Suburbia

Dear Marie: I'm a recently divorced 42 year old female. I have three kids two teenage boys and a little girl. After the divorce, we were forced to move out of our home that we lived in for the past 15 years. Our home was in a really nice neighborhood. It had to be...

Still in Pain

Still in Pain

Dear Marie: I'm 26 years old and my husband of 2 years died of a massive stroke six months ago. We dated for 5 years before we got married and both of us were so happy. There were no warning signs or any reason for it. He was perfectly healthy at 29 years old. Nobody...

He Is at Peace

He Is at Peace

Dear Marie: My husband passed more than a year ago from Alzheimer’s disease. The progress of the disease was very slow. At first, we didn’t know he had it but the doctor later said it had been there for a while. I was his primary care giver for more than 5 years...

Trouble Paying the Bills

Trouble Paying the Bills

Dear Marie: I have been on my own for a year now. My husband died last year. We were married 52 wonderful years. He was the love of my life and I miss him so much. My Tom did all the finances for us. I know I should have taken an interest in what was going on but you...

Fear of Intimacy

Fear of Intimacy

Dear Marie: I feel so embarrassed asking you this but I really need your help. About 3 months ago, I met a very nice gentleman at my church. He’s 76, which is about my age. We hit it off immediately. We have been talking a lot over the phone and at church. I really...

Too Old for School?

Too Old for School?

Dear Marie: Thank you in advance for answering my question. I have been divorced for 3 years and I'm thinking about going back to school. It has always been my dream to have a college education but I never seemed to be able to make it happen. I married young and...

Take My Ex to Court?

Take My Ex to Court?

Dear Marie: I know this question might sound strange but I'm at my wits' and and I don’t know what to do. So I'm writing to you. Maybe you'll have a suggestion about how to handle it. About a year ago my ex‐husband and I decided to get a divorce. We both wanted it....

the Lotus Opened

“Like a lotus flower, Marie has emerged from some of the muddiest conditions and blossomed into a beautiful, inspiring example to all she encounters.”

…And the Lotus Opened is Marie O’Neill’s first book and a memoir of her life journey.